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How to Stop Bedwetting in Children

What is Bedwetting

Bedwetting also called primary nocturnal enuresis is a common problem faced by Millions of families each night. Bedwetting can be frustrating and embarrassing for families as they try to determine the cause and treatment of bedwetting. For children, bedwetting can be stressful and can be emotional. Let’s face it, bedwetting is common but not easy to deal with.easy to deal with.

And whilst there are many products commercially offered as a good solution to bedwetting, the reality is that often many of them are not permanent solutions.

Bed-wetting isn’t caused by a psychological problem.  A significant life change such as a divorce, a death, or a move can trigger it, according to Dr. Howard Bennett, author of Max Archer, Kid Detective: The Case of the Wet Bed.

The National Institutes of Health states that nocturnal enuresis or nighttime incontinence (the medical terms for bedwetting) is involuntary urination after age 5 or 6, and that more than 5 million children experience it. According to the Mayo Clinic, 15 percent of children still wet the bed by age 5, but less than 5 percent of kids do so by ages 8 to 11. Bedwetting tends to run in families and is more common among boys than girls; experts estimate the ratio as roughly 2 boys to 1 girl. Although most children eventually outgrow this phase, here are eight steps you can take to help your child keep dry through the night.

There are several reasons why a child might be a bed-wetter. For starters, it could be genetic since “about three out of four children who are wet at night have a first degree relative that had the same problem,” said Bennett, who blogs at howardjbennett.com.

Bed-wetting might also be caused by a lack of communication between the bladder and the brain. When your kid is toilet trained, he or she learns to inhibit the contractions and hold the urine back. Yet even if your child is able to do it during the day, he or she may still wet at night because “whatever learning goes on between the part of your brain that is responsible for having your bladder empty or holding your urine in, is still immature,” Bennett said.

Another culprit might be that the bladder simply doesn’t have enough room. And those children often have problems holding their urine during the day as well, according to Dr. Hubert Swana, a pediatric urologist who practices at Nemours Children’s Hospital in Orlando, Fl.

If your child is a bed-wetter, here’s what you can do:

 

Bedwetting Causes

Bedwetting is very common among children. Many families believe that their child will simply outgrow bedwetting over time, but this isn’t necessarily true. Unfortunately, families start looking for bedwetting solutions when they have exhausted most needs and they are ready to try new methods.

 

How to Stop Bedwetting

  • Shift times for drinking. Increase fluid intake earlier in the day and reduce it later in the day.
  • Schedule bathroom breaks. Get your child on a regular urination schedule (every two to three hours) and right before bedtime.
  • Be encouraging. Make your child feel good about progress by consistently rewarding successes.
  • Eliminate bladder irritants. At night, start by eliminating caffeine (such as chocolate milk and cocoa) and if this doesn’t work, cut citrus juices, artificial flavorings, dyes (especially red) and sweeteners. Many parents don’t realize these can all irritate a child’s bladder.
  • Avoid thirst overload. If schools allow, give your child a water bottle so they can drink steadily all day. This avoids excessive thirst after school.
  • Consider if constipation is a factor. Because the rectum is right behind the bladder, difficulties with constipation can present themselves as a bladder problem, especially at night. This affects about one third of children who wet the bed, though children are unlikely to identify or share information about constipation.
  • Don’t wake children up to urinate. Randomly waking up a child at night and asking him or her to urinate on demand isn’t the answer, either – and will only lead to more sleeplessness and frustration.
  • Don’t resort to punishment. Getting angry at your child doesn’t help him learn. The process doesn’t need to involve conflict.

Medications: not usually recommended

Although there are medications, including a synthetic form of a hormone, that can address bedwetting, Dr. Rhee doesn’t prescribe them unless a child is already on the medication.

“There are side effects,” she says. “Plus it’s a temporary fix, a Band-Aid remedy, when what we want is an overall solution.”

See the pediatrician

If your child suddenly starts to wet the bed and never did before, he or she might have a urinary tract infection or a more rare condition like diabetes or a neurological problem. Sleep apnea could be the culprit too. Be sure to talk to your child’s pediatrician who can identify a cause, rule out other health problems, and provide solutions.

Talk about it

Studies show that kids who wet the bed have low self-esteem, probably because they feel that it’s something they should be able to control. It can help to talk about how common it is and if a family member had the same problem, share that too.  “Children often feel bad about it, and it helps to know that somebody else in the same family had the same problem,” Bennett said.

Don’t punish

Kids don’t wet the bed on purpose, so discipline won’t stop it.

Pay attention to poop

Constipation can put pressure on the bladder, making it difficult to hold in urine and causing an urge to go. If your kid doesn’t have soft, easy and regular bowel movements, talk to the pediatrician.

Get an alarm

The bed-wetting alarm is the best solution for bed-wetting. It’s about 75 percent effective, when used properly and when both parents and child are motivated. Swana says a process should be followed: Once your child wets the bed, you must wake him or her up and then instruct your child to change the sheets, take a shower and return to bed. When children realize they have to do this each time “eventually they learn to wake up by themselves,” he said.

Try medication

Desmopressin acetate is the most common medication to control bed-wetting and it’s effective in about 50 to 75 percent of children. Ask your pediatrician if it’s right for your child.

Mark the calendar

Keeping track of both wet and dry nights can help motivate your child to end his or her bed-wetting.

Drink and pee

Encourage your child to drink more fluids throughout the day and urinate as soon as there is an urge to go. “If you don’t pay attention to your bladder in the daytime, it’s hard to pay attention to it at night,” Bennett said.

Cut the caffeine

Drinking after dinner is okay, but avoid soda and sports energy drinks, because caffeine can trigger bed-wetting.

Try lifting

Here’s how it works: Before you go to bed, either pick your child up out of bed or wake him or her up to use the bathroom. This will serve as a reminder for what it feels like when your child’s bladder is full so he or she can pay attention to it at bedtime.  “It does help them stay dry until they either outgrow the problem, or if it doesn’t work, they’re more motivated to do something like the alarm,” Bennett said.

 

Bedwetting Treatments (Enuresis Treatment)
Finding effective bedwetting treatments is not hard. Bedwetting is a medical condition with a treatment which is possible.

The treatment for your child depends on a number of things, such as:

  • how often they’re wetting the bed
  • the impact that bedwetting is having, both on your child and on you, your partner and other members of your family
  • your child’s sleeping arrangements, such as whether they sleep alone or share a room with other children
  • whether there’s a short-term need to control your child’s bedwetting – for example, if they’re going away on a school trip
  • how your child feels about specific treatments
  • Disposable absorbent underpants
  • Reusable absorbent underpants
  • Sleeping bag liners
  • Moisture alarms that go off when the child begins to wet the bed
  • Establishing a regular bedtime routine that includes going to the bathroom
  • Waking your child during the night before he/she typically wets the bed and taking him/her to the bathroom
  • Developing a reward system to encourage your child, such as stickers for dry nights
  • Talking to your child about the advantages of potty-training, such as not having to wear diapers and becoming a “big kid”
  • Limiting beverages in the evening – even those last minute water requests
  • Using a “bell-and-pad” which incorporates an alarm that goes off whenever your child’s pajamas or bed become wet during an accident. These systems teach your child to eventually wake up before the bedwetting occurs

Controlling fluid intake

Drinking too much or too little can contribute to bedwetting. Ensuring your child gets the right amount of fluid each day is often recommended.

Although the amount of fluid your child needs can vary depending on things like how physically active they are and their diet, there are some general recommendations for daily fluid intake. These are:

  • boys and girls 4 to 8 years old – 1,000 to 1,400ml (1.7 to 2.4 pints)
  • girls 9 to 13 years old – 1,200 to 2,100ml (2.1 to 3.7 pints)
  • boys 9 to 13 years old – 1,400 to 2,300ml (2.4 to 4 pints)
  • girls 14 to 18 years old – 1,400 to 2,500ml (2.4 to 4.4 pints)
  • boys 14 to 18 years old – 2,100 to 3,200ml (3.7 to 5.6 pints)

However, it’s important to remember that these are just guidelines and many children don’t drink this much.

As well as the quantity, timing is also important. Most of the recommended fluid intake should be consumed during the day, with only about a fifth during the evening.

Also, encourage your child to avoid drinks that contain caffeine, such as cola, tea, coffee or hot chocolate, because these increase the need to urinate during the night.

Toilet breaks

Encourage your child to go to the toilet regularly during the day. Most healthy children urinate between four and seven times a day. You should also make sure your child urinates before going to bed and has easy access to a toilet.

Reward schemes

Many parents find reward schemes helpful in managing bedwetting. This is because motivating your child can help bedwetting treatments be more effective.

However, it’s important to emphasise that these are only effective when they promote positive behaviour rather than punishing negative behaviour.

Bedwetting is something your child can’t control, so rewards shouldn’t be based on whether they wet the bed or not. Instead, you may want to give rewards for:

  • sticking to their recommended fluid intake
  • remembering to go to the toilet before going to bed

It’s important not to punish your child or withdraw previously agreed treats if they wet the bed. Punishing a child is often counterproductive as it places them under greater stress and anxiety, which could contribute to bedwetting.

If you have tried using a reward scheme to improve your child’s bedwetting and it hasn’t been effective, there’s little point continuing it as it’s unlikely to be helpful.

Bedwetting alarms

If the above measures don’t help, a bedwetting alarm is usually the next step.

A bedwetting alarm consists of a small sensor and an alarm. The sensor is attached to your child’s underwear and the alarm is worn on the pyjamas. If the sensor starts to get wet, it sets off the alarm. Vibrating alarms are also available for children who have impaired hearing.

Bedwetting alarms are not prescribed on the NHS, but you may be able to borrow one from your local clinical commissioning group (CCG). Otherwise, they’re available to buy. For example, an organisation called Education and Resources for Improving Childhood Continence (ERIC) sells alarms for around £40 to £140, depending on the type of alarm.

Over time, the alarm should help your child to recognise when they need to pee and wake up to go to the toilet.

Reward systems to promote good behaviour may help, such as getting up when the alarm sounds and remembering to reset the alarm. It also helps to make it as easy as possible for your child to go to the toilet during the night, such as using night lights.

The alarm will usually be used for at least four weeks. If there are signs of improvement by this point, the treatment will continue. If there’s no sign of improvement, treatment is usually withdrawn as it’s unlikely to work for your child.

The aim of the alarm is achieve at least two weeks of uninterrupted dry nights. If there’s some improvement after three months, but no sign of this goal being achievable, alternative treatments are usually recommended (see below).

When bedwetting alarms are unsuitable

Bedwetting alarms require commitment from both children and parents. There may be some situations where they’re not suitable. For example, if:

  • more immediate treatment is required, for example because you’re finding it emotionally difficult to cope with your child’s bedwetting
  • there are practical considerations that make using an alarm problematic, such as if your child shares a room or the alarm disturbs sleep

Some children and their parents may also not like the idea of using an alarm to signify when the child has wet the bed.

Medication

If a bedwetting alarm doesn’t help or isn’t suitable, treatment with medication is usually recommended. The three main medicines used are described below.

Desmopressin

Desmopressin is a synthetic (man-made) version of the hormone that regulates the production of urine, called vasopressin. It helps to reduce the amount of urine produced by the kidneys.

Desmopressin can be used:

  • to provide short-term relief from bedwetting in certain situations – for example, if you’re going on holiday or if your child is going on a trip with friends
  • as a long-term alternative treatment in situations where a bedwetting alarm is ineffective, unsuitable or unwanted

Desmopressin should be taken just before your child goes to bed.

The medication reduces the amount of urine your child produces and makes it harder for their body to deal with excess fluid. Therefore, it’s important they don’t drink from an hour before taking desmopressin, until eight hours after. If your child drinks too much fluid during this time, it could cause a fluid overload, leading to unpleasant symptoms such as headache and sickness.

If your child isn’t completely dry after one to two weeks of taking desmopressin, inform your GP because the dosage may need to be increased.

Your child’s treatment should be reviewed after four weeks. If the bedwetting has improved, it’s usually recommended that treatment continues for another three months, although your doctor may advise taking desmopressin earlier each night (1-2 hours before bedtime). If there is continuing improvement during this time, the course may continue.

If bedwetting stops while taking desmopressin, the medication is reduced gradually to see if your child can stay dry without taking it.

If desmopressin or a bedwetting alarm doesn’t work, you will be referred to a specialist.

Anticholinergics

Another option is to use a combination of desmopressin and an additional medication known as an anticholinergic. An anticholinergic called oxybutynin can be used to treat bedwetting.

Oxybutynin works by relaxing the muscles of the bladder, which can help improve its capacity and reduce the urge to pass urine during the night.

Side effects of oxybutynin include feeling sick, dry mouth, headache,constipation or diarrhoea. These should improve after a few days once your child’s body gets used to the medication. If they persist or get worse, contact the doctor in charge of your child’s care for advice.

Imipramine

If the above treatments don’t work, a prescribed medication calledimipramine may be recommended.

Imipramine also relaxes the muscles of the bladder, increasing its capacity and reducing the urge to urinate.

Side effects of imipramine include dizziness, dry mouth, headache, and increased appetite. These should improve once your child’s body gets used to the medication. It’s important that your child doesn’t suddenly stop taking imipramine because it can lead to withdrawal symptoms such as feeling and being sick, anxiety and difficulties sleeping (insomnia).

Treatment should be reviewed after three months. Once it’s felt your child no longer needs to take imipramine, the dosage can be gradually reduced before the medication is stopped completely.

Advice for parents

It can be easy for experts to advise parents to remain calm and supportive if their child is bedwetting, but in reality it can be a difficult condition to live with.

While it’s important never to blame or punish your child, it’s also perfectly normal to feel frustrated.

You should tell your GP if you feel you need support, particularly if you’re finding it difficult to cope.

You may also find it useful to talk to other parents who have been affected by bedwetting. Education and Resources for Improving Childhood Continence (ERIC) has a message board for parents.

The advice below may help you and your child cope better with bedwetting:

  • Make sure your child has easy access to the toilet at night. For example, if they have a bunk bed they should sleep on the bottom. You could also leave a light on in the bathroom and put a child’s seat on the toilet.
  • Use waterproof covers on your child’s mattress and duvet. After a bedwetting, use cold water or mild bleach to rinse your child’s bedding and nightclothes before washing them as usual.
  • Avoid waking your child in the night or carrying them to the toilet, as these are unlikely to help them in the long-term.
  • Following a bedwetting, older children may want to change their bedding at night to minimise disruption and embarrassment, so having clean bedding and nightclothes available for them can help.
  • You can try taking off pull-ups at night, but this should be considered a trial rather than a treatment. If the child continues to bedwet, wearing pull-ups is often nicer for them and easier for the family to manage.

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